Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Last couple weeks

Here are some pictures from the last two weeks. The first is of my Mom serving up some food at a Block party organized by the Baton Rouge Dream Center. Check out the HPC Serve blog if you want to get involved.



Then the rest of Memorial Day weekend was filled with this Washers game...I have yet to find out the real name of it but I think in Louisiana it's called Cajun Horseshoes. Whatever the name, it is a great BBQ/Braii game. You stand about 10 feet away and throw oversized washers at board with three holes in it. You get 3 points for the 3rd hole, 2 for the 2nd hole and 1 for the first. First to 21 and exactly 21 wins. Good game, JP and I are pretty much unbeatable.

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Marriage as it relates to poverty

So came across this interesting poverty reduction article which basically talks about how broken families significantly increases the risk of a child growing up and staying in poverty.

Here are some of the interesting facts:

- A large majority—92%—of children whose families make more than $75,000 a year live with two parents (including step-parents). At the bottom of the income scale—families earning less than $15,000—only 20% of children live with two parents.

- Those who marry “till death do us part” end up, on average, four times richer than those who never marry.

- A study by Adam Thomas and Isabel Sawhill concluded that if the black family had not collapsed between 1960 and 1998, the black child-poverty rate would have been 28.4% rather than 45.6%. And if white families had stayed like they were in 1960, the white child poverty rate would have been 11.4% rather than 15.4%.

- If she does find and wed the man of her dreams, Miss Ballard will encounter a problem. She has never seen her own father. Having never observed a stable marriage close-up, she will have to guess how to make one work. By contrast, Ashley, the criminology student at the nearby university, has never seen a divorce in her family. This makes it much more likely that, when the time is right, she will get married and stay that way. And that, in turn, makes it more likely that her children will follow her to college. (dang, changing a persons culture, experience, worldview)

-A survey of teenagers by the University of Michigan found that 64% of boys and 57% of girls agreed that “it is usually a good idea for a couple to live together before getting married in order to find out whether they really get along.” Research suggests otherwise. Two-thirds of American children born to co-habiting parents who later marry will see their parents split up by the time they are ten. Those born within wedlock face only half that risk.

Americans expect a lot from marriage. Whereas most Italians say the main purpose of marriage is to have children, 70% of Americans think it is something else. They want their spouse to make them happy. (wait, isn't it that we're suppose to love like Christ loved the church, give you life for that person, love in a pure way...selflessly, unconditionally, for the purpose of building the other person up)

**I thought this was cool, want a poverty reduction strategy, build healthy marriages.

Friday, May 25, 2007

Wrecked for the Ordinary



A cool site to check out - Wrecked for the Ordinary


Wednesday, May 23, 2007

snippets

"Convenience has eclipsed commitment. Sticking to what we believe to be right is hard because change is normal today--and because few are able to endure what is inconvenient."
- Tim Elmore

This spoke to me, I think so often our society flakes out on commitments. Daran Rehmeyer put it another way when talking about courage, "Courage: the heart and willingness to do and say what is required when everything inside and outside screams for compromise."

Lets not compromise, lets not lose focus (man do I do this) and lets stay committed to building the Kingdom of God. If you are reading this don't really get the whole building the Kingdom of God thing then I encourage you to just live a life of commitment and develop an inner courage. Its biblical, its truth and man do I need this truth....do you?

Friday, May 18, 2007

ZIM

Check out this article about the situation in Zimbabwe from the Economist. Right now Ben Rodgers and Charles Young are in the country trying to coordinate efforts to bring love, food, medical help and education to orphans in the Bulawayo area. Pray for safety and pray for Pastor Dixon...he is Cups contact in Zim and the pastor of a new church in Bulawayo.

Thursday, May 17, 2007

San Diego and beyond

I was able to visit a good friend of mine and his family in San Diego, CA. JC and the Cooper family...it sounds like a good show and it would be too. There are 8 of them plus 1 other child that lives with them. JC's parents have fostered over 20 children in the last 15 years and they have adopted 3 of them. Right now they also have Breanna who they hope they can adopt or find a healthy permanent situation for . I'll find a picture of them and post it later.

Other cool people in San Diego were Max Vague of Carlsbad Community Church, JC's grandparents (30 some years with Campus Crusade) and Kyle Turner of The Summit Church in Irvine, CA. Kyle is the brother of The Summit's Lead Pastor Scott. Check out a picture of me surfing
ok, here is the real picture:

Saturday, May 12, 2007

In the middle of 6 days of opening at Starbucks

It seems like these 20-something times
Lack the clarity of my earlier life
It seems like people come
and people go with such ferocious frequency

I don't know, it is not clear
the path, the people, my place in this
I got to connect but naturally pull back
Afraid, Frustrated, Lazy not really sure which

Life keeps rolling but often I feel
100 steps behind
who am I, how am I
questions in my mind or maybe
questions I need to find

Gotta get on my knees
Pray for my sight
Ask God for brothers
Friends from other mothers
You see, I need to organize
I need to evaluate
Present situation
location, time and date
You see God
People say I need a wife
But I know, I know I need you
I know I need life

Thursday, May 10, 2007

More from Arizona

While out in Arizona I also was able to meet with Todd McIntyre and Mike Gowans from Gateway Life Church. They are a new church that has the right heart. They both have a passion to see a thriving local church that reaches the one but also reaches the world. On a side note, Todd heads up an organization that teaches character in schools. Check out Big Mouth Presentations…they hope to be going national in the next few years.

I stopped by a couple other cool churches including Latitude Life Center, Word of Grace and Lord of Life Church and an awesome couple David & Debbie. In addition to that I was able to hang out with my 9 cousins, two aunts and an uncle that live in the Phoenix area. Here are pics:

Friday, May 04, 2007

Trip West 1

I’ve been on the road almost two weeks now and it has been good for my soul. I don’t know how to describe it but I needed this trip. Yes, I am out meeting with Pastors and churches about funding my ministry to Africa but I needed this time with God in the worst kind of way. I don’t have life, ministry, friends, relationships, God figured out but I feel like I’ve found some clarity on this trip. It’s sweet when God deposits truth in your life and takes the haze away. He has definitely helped me regain some of my sight…I feel like I still need a better pair of spiritual contacts or glasses and I’m believing God for those. I mean I am one of his children so I should get dental and VISION right?

I was able to meet with Scott & Caryl Helsel who Pastor a new church in Maricopa, AZ. It is exciting how God has blessed them and opened up doors for a church plant in the rapidly growing city of Maricopa. My cousin Kelly also lives in Maricopa and I am hoping she has a chance to connect with Oasis Life Church and especially Scott and Caryl.

More updates on the way! Here is a Pic of Kelly, Jacob and I:

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Invisible Children

My cousins and I attended the Displace Me in the Phoenix area. Invisible Children hosted 15 Displace Me events in cities across the country. It was an experiential event where Americans simulated what it would be like to live in a refugee camp. It was meant to raise awareness, stimulate compassion and ultimately initiate action to stop the war in Northern Uganda. There has been a civil war raging in Northern Uganda for more than 20 years. The Lord’s Resistance Army has forcefully enlisted children as soldiers in this 20 year struggle. Invisible Children is an organization raising awareness and meeting the practical needs of children and people affected by this war.

Displace Me is to tell another story about how the war in Uganda is affecting people. The war has forced a lot of people off of their land and into refugee camps. At the event they forced you to give up everything you brought in so the leaders could redistribute the water and food later. Only women 18-22 were allowed to get water and they could only get one water bottle per trip. This is because women in internally displaced refugee camps may have to travel up to two miles to get fresh water. They usually must take multiple trips a day for their washing, cooking and drinking needs. Then the men were the only ones who could get food and they had to go back in order to feed everyone in their group. They also had people build cardboard shelters to sleep in. It was cool because it actually was similar to what some of the housing in refugee camps look like.

The one part of the night that I especially loved was the 21 minutes of prayer and silence. I think I liked this part of the night because it is the one thing that I believe can stop this war. I don’t think writing our senators or sending in food aid can stop the war. I do believe that the spirit of God moving on the hearts of generals and leaders on both sides of the conflict can lead to peace in Northern Uganda. Pray for peace and pray for God’s church to extend his love. Check out some pic: