Monday, December 31, 2007
My Christmas Presents
Friday, December 21, 2007
Pics
- With Daran & Nathie at the Mbabane Christmas Party
-With the Brennan Family and Boiovich (spelling?) Family (+Daran)
They are a new family that are working with Children's Cup. They transfered over from another ministry here in Swaziland. We're excited to have them on board, God is bringing people when we need them...God knows what's up
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Alive in SA
I am in South Africa with some friends from Adventures in Missions. Its been fun to get away and hang out with some guys that are my age. We've been exploring with no real agenda and its been great.
The week before I ran around like a chicken with its head cut off at our Christmas Parties. We had over 4,000 children total come out for Christmas parties in Swaziland and Mozambique. I want to say thank you to the team from Celebration Church in Georgetown, TX for coming and being the hands and feet of Jesus.
-Texas Team
- Kids at the Manzini Party
Hope everyone is having a great Christmas season!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
IT'S ABOUT WORSHIP
Children’s Cup had a time of prayer and worship the other day. A big thank you to my boy Caleb Lange for leading worship for us. Check out his blog as he travels the world for the cause of Christ.
God’s really been speaking to me lately about re-focusing my life on him. It is so easy to get busy and leave God behind. Christ needs to be the center of our lives and our ministry.
It was an awesome time of prayer and God has been able to speak a couple things into my life that I really hadn’t slowed down enough to hear. Check out some pics of the night:
Monday, November 12, 2007
Responsible to Tell 2
...I am 15, my mom died last year, my dad died two years ago. Both of them had HIV even though they announced that it was TB at their funerals. I have 2 younger sisters and 3 younger brothers to look after. We get some food from the World Food Program but we usually do not have enough to eat. My uncle is using our land to grow his own crops. He only gives us a little of that food. I had to drop out of school because we had no money and no food. Only one of my younger sisters is going to school and it is a free school put on by the local church. I feel like I should be doing something, but I don’t know what to do. We look for food, we ask people to help us but we still are hungry. I used to want to become a police man, now I just want to feed my brothers and sisters. It is such a responsibility; I don’t know how we will survive the upcoming dry season.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Inner thoughts
You see I sometimes struggle with this question. Most of the time it all seems fuzzy and I don't really know. Africa is in my heart but it doesn't at least feel the same as the way it bleeds out of other people.
I know God called me back here for two years. I know that it is for his purpose and glory. My heart is to serve God where he's called me...that's it.
Maybe I'm wired differently, but I talk to so many people and they say God broke my heart for this or that (orphans, africa, mozambique, China, Somalia, prostitutes, etc.) and then decided to do something. Instead I went because God asked me to and am relying on him to bring me around, truly, I mean truly embrace this call and deeply love the people of Southern Africa.
I'm following God and am continually needing him to break my heart so I'm truly broken for the people I'm serving, for Southern Africa's orphans. Maybe its just I'm a bit thick skinned or maybe its because I've been in Africa for awhile...but often I ask God for just one thing...the ability to love.
Comments, other's experience??? Does this make sense?
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Responsible to Tell
I’ve realized I have a tendency to downplay the situation in
Here is the first, Imagine with me this often faced reality.
I am a little 12 year old girl, I am sick, I have HIV. The other children at school see that I am sick all of the time. All of the children begin to talk about me, they talk behind my back and say that I have HIV. The children say that I must be having sex with older boys. They accuse me of being stupid for doing such a foolish thing. Little do they know that when I was 6 years old, my uncle raped me. My own mother won’t believe me, how will a whole group of classmates. My mother, that’s another thing. She doesn’t know what to think. She sees that I go to church every week and knows I am a good girl. Yet, I have HIV, she won’t believe that her brother (my uncle) would rape me. I feel dirty, I feel unloved, I feel like I am a burden, I feel misunderstood. I have no friends, the other children have been told to stay away from me. I feel like I have no future, like I have no hope. My life is horrible.
Tuesday, October 02, 2007
Chicken Story...
I had one of those only in
In 1993 Gugu crossed the country of
Fast forward to 2007…Gugu, two of the Dynamic children and myself head out to Siteki to try to find this family. We have some general directions from Gugu’s uncle who stays in Siteki. The family had moved to a small town Sitsasweni. There are few places in
Anyways, we arrive at the homestead and find out that the children live with their father. We do find the mother though, and she is amazed to see Gugu after all this time. We pray for her and the rest of the family on the homestead. We sat and enjoyed the African hospitality. We sang songs and traded stories. We gave them some gifts of clothing and food before heading out. In response they handed Gugu a chicken…yes a live chicken. So this is my story about how I ended up driving with a chicken flying around in the back of my car.
Monday, September 24, 2007
Charles has left us
Charles we’ll miss your energy, passion, heart for the lost, love for the orphans, laughs, preaching, friendship, ideas and a whole bunch of other things you brought to the table.
Monday, September 10, 2007
Youth Programs
I am tasked with trying to get a youth program started here in Swaziland. I am still seeking God about what exactly that looks like but so far here is the plan.
1-We hope to eventually establish a youth group at all the CarePoints.
2-We'd like to start a sports program that teaches sports and biblical values.
3-We want to establish a regular skills training program that will help equip the youth.
4-We want to have a part time internship in 2008 for Africans.
Pray for God's wisdom and pray that I hear God on this...
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Phephile & Nininnia
I’m so glad that I get to do this. I am privileged to serve God and witness lives transformed. Check out pictures of these girls who are worth just as much to God as anyone else out there.
~Nininnia is on the left and Phephile is on the right
It’s about love, It’s about obedience, It’s about hope, It’s about justice, It’s about children, It’s about Jesus!!
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Invasion 07
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
IN LONDON
"The drugs and test kits worth US$6 million per year, brings the total United States contribution to HIV and AIDS prevention, care, and treatment in Zimbabwe to US$31 million, the two governments said."
- Something that makes me proud to be an American. Zimbabwe's leaders make a bunch of noise about 'the West' yet we still reach out to help them. Very cool, very biblical!
Sunday, August 05, 2007
Inside me
I've been blessed with so much, how can I procrastinate or pity my call to Africa. If I really sit back and think about it...I should be running full steam ahead to give all I can to the Jesus who gave me everything. Pray for me, that I might embrace my call, that I might let go of what I think is success.
Friday, July 27, 2007
JUST PRAY! IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING FOR OUR GOD!
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Blogs to Check
http://jpbrumfield.com/ - JP is an awesome guy, he is dedicated to serving anyone and everyone for the purpose of Christ. Be on the lookout for Servolution...change the world baby!
http://followingyourcommand.blogspot.com/ - Rick Young is a friend of mine from Philly! He is going to be playing a bigger and bigger role in spreading the word about what Children's Cup is doing. He is an up and coming ambassador for the children of Africa...he will be stiring people to action
http://refugejturn.wordpress.com/ - Jamie Phillips is a passionate guy I was able to lead/hang with at Submerge. He loves to worship God and is living a submitted life (which is an awesome, God rock my world, radical life) Check out his blog
http://areowebee.com/ - Rob Gros plays bass guitar, is about to be a Dad, has mad crazy design skills and is really funny! Cool blog but an even cooler guy!
http://toriohlerking.blogspot.com/ - Tori is the daughter of Dan and Vicki...they are cool, so yes she's very cool. She also has a gracious and God breathed strength about her.
http://www.brandonbourgeois.blogspot.com/ - Brandon is a fun loving guy from Elevate. He's got a heart for the nations and I believe God is about to really use him. God's going to use him as an influencer...for good, for righteous living, for right attitude and for truth!
Check em out!
Monday, July 16, 2007
A Lil VBS
Miss Sherrie and her group of dynamic children's ministers are heading to Mozambique to hold a VBS at HPC Nkobe. They will have a huge impact on the children there and especially on Celeste (Children's Cup teacher at Nkobe) and some of the other ladies in the community. The children here in the States are helping to send Miss Sherrie's team. I was honored with the opportunity to pray for the offering. I also managed to teach the kid's at VBS some Siswati(tribal language in Swaziland), Shangaan(a tribal language in southern Mozambique) and some Sibhaca/Swazi dancing.
Check out myself, Cowboy Drew and Heather breaking it down Swazi style!!!
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Friday, July 06, 2007
thoughts
What God is asking Children's Cup to do is huge. What he's asking of me seems impossible. I admit that I am not capable, that we are not capable. Jesus, we need you, we love you and we trust you. "The Lord your God is faithful..."
Thursday, July 05, 2007
SUBMERGE 07'
Tuesday, July 03, 2007
B-Ham
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Cup Creative Team
We have been meeting a lot lately to come up with ways that will creatively tell the need and stories that Children's Cup runs into in Africa.
My Life, is a project the three of them have been working on the past month or so. We want to capture the stories, struggles, courage and victories of those living in the midst of poverty, AIDS, malaria and internal conflict in Southern Africa. Check out the Children's Cup website if you want to give towards their trip to capture the first stories of My Life.
Friday, June 15, 2007
A Question, Responses needed
What would you like to know about African Aids orphans? When you see a picture or video of a child, what would you like to know? What part of their story?
Please leave comments or email me at patrick@childrenscup.org
Friday, June 08, 2007
Family moment
Cutting Rob's hair. Alright here is what's going on in everyone's mind:
Rob - Straight up praying for his ear and thinking, "He has no idea what he's doing, why did I get myself in this situation"
Colleen - "Yes, he's getting a haircut, Life is great, God is good! I need to encourage someone"
Pat - "Man, I have no idea what I'm doing, I really might cut his ear if I'm not careful"
Tuesday, June 05, 2007
What's on my mind
I think about returning to Africa and how it is less than 3 months away. I am excited and I am ready and yet I am not. I want to and need to seek out God for his vision and his purpose for my return to Africa. I know I need to walk by His Spirit and go with his purpose or I might as well stay here and send money. God's been speaking to me about focus and the importance of staying intentional. I want my two years to be intentional, to be on purpose, to be of God.
The second thing I think about is how I have failed to be very useful to God while I've been home. God has planted and blessed me with so much...yet I have failed to step up, call out and lead while I've been home. Pray that I would be obedient, that God would use me at Starbucks, at church and as I travel.
Another thing is my fundraising. I have over 80% of my money for two years in or pledged. That's over $23,000 that is pledged or given. Yeah, God showed up. I still need another $240 a month pledged or $5,800 given. If you want to help me return to Africa please click here. Pray about it, maybe God is asking you...all I can ask for is your obedience.
Finally, I think about how blessed I am to have a family that cares and loves for me. So many of those kids I get the privelege of serving in Africa lack even one person who loves them, let alone a family.
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Last couple weeks
Then the rest of Memorial Day weekend was filled with this Washers game...I have yet to find out the real name of it but I think in Louisiana it's called Cajun Horseshoes. Whatever the name, it is a great BBQ/Braii game. You stand about 10 feet away and throw oversized washers at board with three holes in it. You get 3 points for the 3rd hole, 2 for the 2nd hole and 1 for the first. First to 21 and exactly 21 wins. Good game, JP and I are pretty much unbeatable.
Marriage as it relates to poverty
Here are some of the interesting facts:
- A large majority—92%—of children whose families make more than $75,000 a year live with two parents (including step-parents). At the bottom of the income scale—families earning less than $15,000—only 20% of children live with two parents.
- Those who marry “till death do us part” end up, on average, four times richer than those who never marry.
- A study by Adam Thomas and Isabel Sawhill concluded that if the black family had not collapsed between 1960 and 1998, the black child-poverty rate would have been 28.4% rather than 45.6%. And if white families had stayed like they were in 1960, the white child poverty rate would have been 11.4% rather than 15.4%.
- If she does find and wed the man of her dreams, Miss Ballard will encounter a problem. She has never seen her own father. Having never observed a stable marriage close-up, she will have to guess how to make one work. By contrast, Ashley, the criminology student at the nearby university, has never seen a divorce in her family. This makes it much more likely that, when the time is right, she will get married and stay that way. And that, in turn, makes it more likely that her children will follow her to college. (dang, changing a persons culture, experience, worldview)
-A survey of teenagers by the University of Michigan found that 64% of boys and 57% of girls agreed that “it is usually a good idea for a couple to live together before getting married in order to find out whether they really get along.” Research suggests otherwise. Two-thirds of American children born to co-habiting parents who later marry will see their parents split up by the time they are ten. Those born within wedlock face only half that risk.
Americans expect a lot from marriage. Whereas most Italians say the main purpose of marriage is to have children, 70% of Americans think it is something else. They want their spouse to make them happy. (wait, isn't it that we're suppose to love like Christ loved the church, give you life for that person, love in a pure way...selflessly, unconditionally, for the purpose of building the other person up)
**I thought this was cool, want a poverty reduction strategy, build healthy marriages.
Friday, May 25, 2007
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
snippets
- Tim Elmore
This spoke to me, I think so often our society flakes out on commitments. Daran Rehmeyer put it another way when talking about courage, "Courage: the heart and willingness to do and say what is required when everything inside and outside screams for compromise."
Lets not compromise, lets not lose focus (man do I do this) and lets stay committed to building the Kingdom of God. If you are reading this don't really get the whole building the Kingdom of God thing then I encourage you to just live a life of commitment and develop an inner courage. Its biblical, its truth and man do I need this truth....do you?
Friday, May 18, 2007
ZIM
Thursday, May 17, 2007
San Diego and beyond
Saturday, May 12, 2007
In the middle of 6 days of opening at Starbucks
Lack the clarity of my earlier life
It seems like people come
and people go with such ferocious frequency
I don't know, it is not clear
the path, the people, my place in this
I got to connect but naturally pull back
Afraid, Frustrated, Lazy not really sure which
Life keeps rolling but often I feel
100 steps behind
who am I, how am I
questions in my mind or maybe
questions I need to find
Gotta get on my knees
Pray for my sight
Ask God for brothers
Friends from other mothers
You see, I need to organize
I need to evaluate
Present situation
location, time and date
You see God
People say I need a wife
But I know, I know I need you
I know I need life
Thursday, May 10, 2007
More from Arizona
I stopped by a couple other cool churches including Latitude Life Center, Word of Grace and Lord of Life Church and an awesome couple David & Debbie. In addition to that I was able to hang out with my 9 cousins, two aunts and an uncle that live in the Phoenix area. Here are pics:
Friday, May 04, 2007
Trip West 1
I was able to meet with Scott & Caryl Helsel who Pastor a new church in Maricopa, AZ. It is exciting how God has blessed them and opened up doors for a church plant in the rapidly growing city of Maricopa. My cousin Kelly also lives in Maricopa and I am hoping she has a chance to connect with Oasis Life Church and especially Scott and Caryl.
More updates on the way! Here is a Pic of Kelly, Jacob and I:
Tuesday, May 01, 2007
Invisible Children
Displace Me is to tell another story about how the war in Uganda is affecting people. The war has forced a lot of people off of their land and into refugee camps. At the event they forced you to give up everything you brought in so the leaders could redistribute the water and food later. Only women 18-22 were allowed to get water and they could only get one water bottle per trip. This is because women in internally displaced refugee camps may have to travel up to two miles to get fresh water. They usually must take multiple trips a day for their washing, cooking and drinking needs. Then the men were the only ones who could get food and they had to go back in order to feed everyone in their group. They also had people build cardboard shelters to sleep in. It was cool because it actually was similar to what some of the housing in refugee camps look like.
The one part of the night that I especially loved was the 21 minutes of prayer and silence. I think I liked this part of the night because it is the one thing that I believe can stop this war. I don’t think writing our senators or sending in food aid can stop the war. I do believe that the spirit of God moving on the hearts of generals and leaders on both sides of the conflict can lead to peace in Northern Uganda. Pray for peace and pray for God’s church to extend his love. Check out some pic:
Sunday, April 22, 2007
Full Time Elevate in Africa
Friday, April 20, 2007
Tired
I'm heading out West on a fundraising trip this upcoming Monday. Please pray that God opens doors and goes before me. I'm about 3/5 of the way to the total amount I need to fundraise. Pray that God sends financial and prayer partners my way...pray that God helps me share the vision in an authentic and clear way. Pray that I would not falter but that I'd go to the living water! Let me know how you guys are doing! (please send me your email address if you are interested in getting email updates, patrick@childrenscup.org)
Monday, April 16, 2007
Obedience, America, Walking in love...
" Most of us are educated way beyond our level of obedience. We don't need more information. We need more transformation. We need to stop explaining what people already understand. A little less explanation. A lot more exhortation. " - Mark Batterson
Mark came and spoke at Healing Place Church a couple of weeks ago. He seems to be able to find a timeless truth in any situation or subject. I love when God uses creative guys like Mark to bring the simple message of the cross. I also love and am convicted by the above quote. Let's make our faith practical...it seems like I've struggled to do that here in the States. It was what my life was in Swaziland -showing the love of Christ- but I feel stuck sometimes back here in the States.
ok, comments time: What are some ways you've been able to show the love of Christ recently? Please respond, I desperately want to know of ways to practically walk out our faith in 21st century America.
Saturday, April 14, 2007
Some cool pics
Friday, April 13, 2007
Chicago
I was also able to hang out with my Uncle Greg, Aunt Judy, Cousin Steve and his fiance Emilie. Check out Steve's blog as he chronicles his life and his journey towards marriage.
One more thing, I woke up the day after I arrived in Chicago to snow....snow....snow after Easter, and that is why I'm not sure if I'll ever live that far north again.
Saturday, April 07, 2007
Ping Pong
Wednesday, April 04, 2007
Walk-a-thon
Dave & Jean Ohlerking with Miss Lita & Miss Annette
- The crowd/walkers
Friday, March 30, 2007
Life...
Well, I was reading the Rehmeyer's latest post and it hit me in the face what an idiot I've been. Life is a gift, life is special, people are special, we are special...made in his image. Read the post "Correspondance" on the Rehmeyer's Blog and pray for the Children's Cup team, the people of Africa and those in your own lives. Let's live life on purpose...lets not take for granted the experiences and people in our lives.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Caterpillar Invasion
Monday, March 26, 2007
South Florida
Later that day I was able to meet with Pastor Bob Franquiz who is leading Calvary Fellowship in Miami Lakes, FL.
It was an awesome opportunity to meet with these two creative Pastors. Pray for these guys as they minister in a tough spiritual environment. On an average Sunday less than 6% of the people in Miami area are in church. Life Pointe and Calvary Fellowship are both reaching out in dynamic ways which include having church in movie theaters. Below is a picture of the theater where Life Pointe meets.
On Saturday I was able to attend my cousin Meghan’s wedding. Meghan married Bill Koperski in a very surferesque ceremony. It was great seeing family and being able to share the special day with Meghan & Bill. Here is a picture of the parents on the dance floor! Check out Bruce aka Dad’s green coat...nice!!!
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
HIV/AIDS and the Church
here is a snippet of the article -
"Imagine what 2 billion Christians might accomplish as one faithful force against one disease. Imagine the possibilities for proving church-mocking skeptics wrong. Imagine closed doors opening for the gospel. Imagine the lives saved. A world in the ever-tightening grip of HIV doesn't stand a chance without us."
- Christianity Today
fasting, what?
"But I'm beginning to understand some of the benefits of fasting; I'm beginning to see that I recognize my dependence on God more clearly when I'm hungry; I'm beginning to chip away at some of the stupor that comes with always being sated."
- a Christianity Today article
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Git R Done
I saw this the other day and immediately thought of my boy Charles Young. He's got a Git R Done attitude and a passion for reaching out to African High Schoolers. Check out his latest blog post about a man who was on his deathbed in June and is now wielding a sledge hammer: "Jesus is Moving